First Post of 2015 - Real Men and Women Don't and Do

What I want to know is why do people cheat?  If someone is a cheater than they are automatically a liar as well.  In order to cheat you have to hide the fact from the person you are dating or married to.  I have always loved my brother because he has said if you are not happy with someone then get out of it before you even think about dating someone else.  It's really yucky and hurtful when you figure out you've been cheated on.  It's like a kick in the gut.

Why do people dump all the responsibility?  You see marriages dissolve and in a perfect world both of the parents would equally take care of their children.  But so often one of the spouses sticks it to the other one not realizing the ramifications to their kids.  Don't they realize the kids understand the inequity?  Yes, the kids may still have a relationship with that parent but deep down inside they feel hurt and abandoned by the parent that doesn't hold up their side of the bargain.  The person that the kids don't live with can justify their lack of support both physically or financially but in essence they are just bad people for walking away from all responsibility and dumping it on the other one.

I don't know how people can live with themselves.  How can you live your life knowing you are hurting someone else?  Doesn't it make you feel sick to your stomach to know how bad someone is hurting because of you??

And here's to the "other" woman or man.  In what world is it alright to sleep with someone who is with someone else?

To psychoanalyze all this I would have to say that some people love the covert operation of being a player.  What can I get away with?  Adrenaline rush!

Walking away from responsibility?  Being able to rationalize and compartmentalize your life.

Wake up and smell the coffee!!  There are good people out there!!  Be one of them!!